so this past weekend, we went up to norcal and had our third session in marriage counseling with pastor victor and his wife, jenny. It went really well. Michelle and I learned more about ourselves and each other. We talked about our marriage expectations and our personalities. Pastor victor shared with us his experiences and we talked about our differences and how they can complement each other. Our marriage expectations seem pretty down to earth (according to victor) and it was a good sign! There was one question that was interesting. It was Do you think you still have the same romantic expectations after couple years? The answer is no simply because feelings change and we change as people but love doesn't change. (I answered yes! michelle andwered correctly with a no) I later recalled with michelle that when we first started dating we would after our honeymoon we would have another one for 99 more years! haha we both got a good laught out of it.

Anyways marriage counseling is pretty fun and actually helps get out feelings and thoughts in a safe way. I'm really enjoying these counseling sessions and learning a lot about both of us.